Parents often ask me to change the name of their newborn baby. After changing the name, they often ask how their children will develop in the future, whether they will be filial to themselves, and so on. In fact, in metaphysics, how do you see whether children will be filial to themselves? First of all, should we distinguish between empathy and reason? What is love? And what is reason? Love refers to situations, situations and emotions, while li refers to reason and mathematics. Everything has to be reasonable in order to get an ideal result. Let’s talk about love today, let’s talk about it next time.
If you want to intercede, then you have to talk about the difference between the two generations and the current situation of children's cultivation, in order to get a good analysis result. First of all, after the rapid economic take-off in the 1970s, 1980s and 1990s, the families at that time were not as rich as they are now, but those who were born and raised at that time have accumulated a certain amount of wealth by now. Because the family is relatively wealthy and the birth rate has been low for a long time, children born in recent years are more pampered and have not been baptized by hardships. As a parent, of course I understand the mentality of all parents who want their children to become dragons, but now parents are too focused on schoolwork and are too demanding on their children's academic performance, so words such as "monster parent" and "tiger mother" appear. As long as children study hard, That's fine. Many times extremes turn against one another, and it's not a good thing to pull the seedlings and encourage them. Moreover, modern parents do not teach their children about their virtues or what filial piety is, and many of them don't even teach them by example, so that children know the traditional Chinese virtue of "filial piety is the first in all walks of life", and some even bully their own. Parents and children naturally take it seriously when they see it. Since there has never been this kind of cultivation, will they suddenly learn it on their own?
So when you ask your children whether they will be filial to you, in fact, half of the causes are the parents themselves (so when I answer this question, I will first look at the parents' own character, and then look at the children's fate before answering this question. Questions), whether there are example teaching and moral cultivation. During the summer vacation, as a parent, take the opportunity to cultivate the character of your children, teach by example, and take care of your parents!
Source: SundayKiss
