Parents often ask me about the connection between metaphysics and children's growth education. I think there is actually a very high connection between the two. For example, there is a saying in the study of physiognomy that "people shake their fortunes, and trees shake and leaves fall", which is actually quite well-founded. why? In fact, when a person walks up, whether he is stable or not will directly affect other people's perception of him. If he walks in a high-spirited manner, it will make people feel that this person is very mature and stable, and can achieve great things. Therefore, in the history book "Song Shu. In the Records of Emperor Wudi, it is recorded that Liu Yu, Emperor Wu of the Song Dynasty in the early years of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, was a man who walked with dragons and tigers. As for a person who walks like a swaying willow, it is easy to give people a sense of lack of stability, either light-hearted or impetuous, and it is difficult to make people feel that they can be entrusted to him. Swinging to the right is also a sign of poverty, and that's why.
And it is also said in "Jade Guan Zhao Shen Ju": "A villain walks like a flame, with a light body and heavy feet." That is to say, when a villain walks, his upper body is like a swaying wind and a willow, but his lower body seems to be struggling; The supplementary note in Yu Guan Zhao Shen Ju also says, "It is like a fire that shakes, its body is not upright, and its feet are shaken. ' That is, when the villain walks, his body is not upright, and his feet are swaying and moving.
Therefore, a child's words and deeds are actually enough to affect his life. Parents should carefully observe their children's words and deeds. If there is something wrong, they should correct them. Let him understand that every word and deed will affect whether he will gain the trust of others in the future. Put yourself on the road to success with half the effort. In fact, there are many other behavioral issues that will affect the success or failure of other children, and we will talk about them gradually in the future.

Source: Sunday Kiss